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People often believe, wrongly so that women fall for assholes. You may have had a few bad experiences which taint your perception that women actually find men who treat them badly attractive. However, you cannot be more wrong about this conception.

1. She needs your time:

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Men are often careless in the way they interact with women and it can take a toll on their relationship that will last a lifetime. That thing you said about her mother, a comment on her appearance in bad taste, the time you ignored her opinion on a matter, the time you told her she was being overly dramatic when she was upset about something instead of listening to her, the time you made fun of her friends, were not supportive of her career or the time you were just a class A jerk.

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These things will not only make her dump your ass in a flash it will have an effect on her future relationships as well. She will find it hard to trust another person again.

2. They remember everything:

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Women are more observant of the little actions that people do as they tend to be more emotionally intelligent than men. If you are good to her, then even if things do not work out between you in the long run, she will hold your memory in her heart with tenderness.

3. Learn to Empathize With Her:

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She will remember and cherish the intimate and beautiful moments you two shared. She will remember how you made her laugh when she was in a bad mood, how you cooked for her when she was overworked or sick. She will hold these close to her heart and will hold the person who comes into her life next to the same standards. You can still be a good friend to her after things end between you two, instead of someone who she has to get over in order to move on with her life.

4. She stays with you no matter what:

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Sometimes it may seem that a woman is staying in an abusive relationship on purpose or wonder why she just doesn’t end it. However, you have to understand that things are complicated. Women, since they are very young, are taught that if a boy is being mean or rude to her, it means he likes her.

5. Never Make Her Feel Like You Are Taking Her for Granted:

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Hence she learns to associate that kind of behavior with affection and it effects her future relationships. It is also possible that she fell for a person when he was pretending to be nice and only after getting deeply involved did he start to become manipulative and abusive. By that time it becomes difficult to get out of a relationship as you become so used to having that person around that you start to miss them when they’re not there thus you stay with him hoping that he will change or revert to the person you fell in love with in the first place.

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6. Don’t Let Her Forget You:

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Gradually, however, a woman does start to see the cracks in her relationship which will lead her to fall out of love with that person.

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Slowly but surely. Any warm feelings she has for that person will slowly fade away, she will grow distant and cold until finally.

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She realizes that she deserves better than a person who doesn’t appreciate or love her. At this point, it will be too late to heal your relationship and it will come crumbling down.

7. Take Responsibility For Your Actions and Act Like An Adult:

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Only when she leaves you will you realize how much better she made your life. How she was a source of light in the bleak dark hole that your life is. You will beg her to stay but it will be too late.

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You will wish you had appreciated her when she was in your life and had tried to be a better person but to no avail.

8. Realize that one is enough:

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Being in a healthy, loving relationship with someone is one of the most beautiful experiences in one’s life. It is also very easy to take things for granted when they’re good. Only to have the sad realization of what it could have been hit you later.

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All it takes is a little effort and good communication to make sure you do not let go of someone who could have been your ‘the one’ just because you were too self-absorbed to notice your partner’s needs.

9. Schedule Quality Time With Her:

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However, it is not implied that you let yourself be treated badly either, men or women both can be abusive in a relationship. It means that you are open to communication and compromise. Be kind and nurturing but do not let anyone walk all over you. Be respectful but do not tolerate indignation towards yourself either.

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Just treat your partner how you would want to be treated and with mutual respect and love you will be able to spend a happy fulfilled life with the love of your life.

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Here Are 13 False Pregnancy Myths to Help All Mothers-to-Be

There are many myths and misconceptions attached to pregnancy. Here are some of the most commonly believed in myths and reasons why they are not true:

1. Wide Hips Can Make Childbirth Easier:

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When people talk about wide hips in the context of childbirth they are usually referring to a wider ilium. However, the distance between the iliac crests and the size of the birth canal are totally unrelated. During childbirth, it is the hole in the middle of the pelvic bone that counts and it can be big or small irrelevant of the size of the hips.

2. The Size And Shape Of The Belly Can Tell Whether It’s A Boy Or A Girl:

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Most people try to guess the gender of the baby by looking at the shape of a pregnant woman’s belly. Although it will make things quite easier if it were true but it is not. The size and shape of the belly are affected by the size of the fetus and its position in the womb.

3. Frequent Ultrasounds Are Unsafe For The Baby:

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There is no scientific backing to the myth that getting an ultrasound could harm a mother or her unborn child. People often confuse ultrasound with radiation. Ultrasound is just high-frequency sound waves which produce an image on the screen after bouncing off of the fetus and are safe.

4. It’s Bad For The Baby To Lie On Your Stomach:

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The baby is well protected inside the muscular uterus and lying on the stomach would not harm it, as long as it feels comfortable.

5. Running While Pregnant Is Bad:Image result for pregnant woman running shutterstock

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Becoming pregnant does not mean you should give up running. As long as you have a safe pregnancy and your doctor gives you a go ahead, it is completely fine for you to continue running.

6. Morning Sickness Only Happens In The Morning And During The First Trimester:Image result for morning sickness shutterstock

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Majority of the pregnant women suffering from nausea but only a small percentage of it suffer it in the morning. It can be an all day thing and while for most women it does end after the first trimester for some it can go on until the time of delivery.

7. Lifting Your Arms Above Your Head Could Strangle The Baby:Image result

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Lifting your arms around your head cannot cause the umbilical cord to wrap around your baby’s neck. In fact, none of your movements can have an effect on the position of the umbilical cord and a lot of babies are born with the umbilical cord wound around their neck and is easily removed by the doctor.

8. You Would Have To Get Rid Of Your Cat:

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Cats can be the carrier of a rare birth defect causing disease called toxoplasmosis. However, this does not mean you have to say goodbye to your pet as soon as you get pregnant. It is recommended to avoid cleaning the litter box and if you do not have anyone to do it for you wear gloves while doing it and immediately wash your hands afterwards.

9. Pregnancy Is The Best Time Of The Life For All Women:

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The general conception goes round that being pregnant is the happiest time in a woman’s life. In reality, many pregnant can feel stressed, afraid and general feelings of unhappiness. A small percentage of women even suffer from symptoms of depression. This can happen due to the changing hormones in a woman’s body which ultimately affect the brain and mood center. If a woman experiences depressive symptoms it should be treated as it can have adverse effects on the health of the mother and baby.

10. It Is Okay To Drink Once In A While:

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When you drink alcohol while pregnant, so does your baby as it can pass freely through the placenta. This can increase the baby being born with some physical or mental birth defect. While it is hard to determine the safe amount of alcohol that can be consumed without harming the baby it is best to stay away from alcohol altogether during the course of pregnancy.

11. You Lose All Your Pregnancy Weight During The Delivery:

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The extra pregnancy weight gain is due to the amalgamation of the weight of the baby, placenta, breasts, the increased volumes of blood and body fluid in the body and some extra fat. While the weight of the baby, placenta and amniotic fluid is immediately lost after the delivery, it takes a couple of weeks to lose the weight gained by fluid and also fat depending on how much you gained.

12. A C-section Is The Easy Way Out:Image result

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When it comes to delivery there is no easy way out. Many pregnant women believe that a C-section is the less painful and safer way of delivery. However, in reality, a c section could be pretty painful as well the only difference is you feel the pain after the baby had been born, unlike the vaginal birth. It can also pose complications later and is only recommended by doctors when the benefits outweigh the dangers.

13. The Fetus Is Unaffected By The Outside Events:

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For a long time, it was believed that babies are born oblivious to their outside environment. In truth, babies can hear sounds and recognize their mother’s voice while inside the womb. They are also able to detect light and taste the food by licking the placental wall.

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Here Are 24 Tweets That Prove Pets Change Lives for the Better

Pets are amazing. They can easily become your best friend and these hilarious tweets prove that there is never a dull moment with them:

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Doesn’t looking at these make you want to get a pet.

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People Had Varying Opinions on This Artist Impression of “Realistically Proportioned Disney Princesses” and We Thought You Should Be Able To Form Your Own.

People’s opinions around the world often vary because of the different circumstances they live in. And living in a world with so many different kinds of people often means that they’ll conflict on matters from time to time. Something similar happened when an artist posted a picture of a what he thought “Realistically proportioned” Disney princesses would look like.

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The following comments followed and one woman, in particular, had a strong response,

 

several people seemed to agree with her,

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Other people soon started appearing in the comments box with their own opinions, an artist gave his expert opinion,

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This commenter made us all aware that Disney had been wrong in several respects,

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People continued discussing what body acceptance really was;

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Tell us what you think about the realistically proportioned Disney princesses in the comments!

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