It is hard to tell if someone is trustworthy or not. It is not always easy to trust people, especially when you had bad experiences with other people. You may face difficulty on trusting someone. Here are a few methods which you can use in future to determine whether you should trust someone or not.
1. They don’t lie to themselves:
When you face someone who seems disconnected from the reality. Their behaviors and the way they are trying to deny the reality of their nature is definitely a clear sign that trusting someone like him/her would prove to be a bad idea. So be careful before you trust others.
2. They keep a promise:
When you promise someone something you must honor that. No matter how small your is. It might means more to that person than you understand. They keep the promise and stick on the information someone shared with them. They don’t reveal it no matter what.
3. They have integrity:
Trustworthy people hold strong moral principle and stand by them. They don’t hesitate to practice what they preach. Loyalty is an essential moral that you find in abundance in trustworthy people. If you have got the kind of people who do not waver upon their own values and stick by them. Consider yourself one of the lucky lads who is blessed with trustworthy people around him.
4. They don’t gossip behind someone’s back:
Trustworthy people, do not talk poorly behind people’s back. Rather they are mature enough to address them face-to-face. Gossiping isn’t just speaking poorly about people. It is generally chatting about useless information. They discuss something worthy and productive rather than making people’s lives miserable.
5. They put you at ease (Trusting Someone):
A trustworthy person will eventually put you at ease when you are in his/her presence. Because of that person’s character, you are able to enjoy that person’s presence without wondering how that person will take advantage of yours.
6. They will not judge you:
Perhaps you’ve known people who are constantly critiquing others. Such people feel quite uneasy talking or sharing anything with them. But a trustworthy person is not constantly critiquing you. This kind of people don’t evaluate or judge you.
7. They admit their mistakes:
Admitting small screw-ups, shows that they are willing to be honest. They don’t want to break your trust. If a person can not take responsibility for the small things, he/she can’t take responsibility for the big things as well. An apology shows the desire to build trust. Trustworthy people never back down in front of their ego.
8. They show you the support:
Just saying that you support someone isn’t enough, you have to prove it too in the times of need. Trustworthy people do this too! They will always be present for you in your hard times and will help you whole heartedly. They will not hide away from you and will always be there for you.
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Article by Born Realist