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The best thing in life may be free but it’s harder to get. You can’t get anything overnight, it will take your sweat and passion to acquire. That’s really hard when it comes to learn important life skills.

Mastering your thoughts

To do what you want to or to accomplish your goals you need to think and stay positive no matter what. The challenge is to pass all the hurdles and fulfill your desires. We are the output of our past actions and our thinking is the result of all this. However, the past does not equal the future.

Speaking up

Speaking up in public is very hard and many of us lack confidence. People feel like if they’ll speak in public people will make fun of them or will throw them. It takes all the courage and guts to speak up. One should let go of his fears and conquer them. Try to speak up don’t let your thoughts and emotions stay in you.


At times we are so overwhelmed with the stuff we do like texting, snapping, etc. For active listening repeat what you once heard. Cramp it. It makes things so much easier when everyone is on the same page.

Positive self-talk

It doesn’t matter what others think or say. You need to do what you really want to. You need to build confidence in you, it is very necessary to cope up with people. Believe in yourself when nobody does and later prove them wrong. Whenever you feel like giving up stand in front of mirror and say that “I can do it”

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Mastering your sleep

You need to relax in order to get something. You should be consistent with your sleep schedule. Make it easier to fall asleep and wake up. You’ll feel fresh and energetic.

Honesty with others and yourself

Being completely honest can be awkward at times. If you doesn’t have anything good to say you need to stay quite. Don’t piss off other people with your rubbish talk. Admit it when you’re wrong. No one is perfect. You should learn from your mistakes.There is no greater sin than to not learn from it.


People often stop working hard once they reach on top. They need to know that to maintain the top position they have to work harder and to be more consistent regarding their work. If you’re working on an important project consistency is necessary to control any kind of success.

Staying present in the moment

We tend not to be very good at staying present in the moment. People think of what others are doing not of what they’re doing. This will actually hurt our feelings later on.  People are less happy when they’re mind-wandering no matter what they’re doing.

Learning a new language

Key to learn other language is to master every bit of the culture. Learning new language is hell kind of a fun. You got to learn new vocabulary and new way of thinking. It can be an incredible gift for you. You can add this in your bucket list.

Resisting gossip

The most important thing in life is building and losing trust. It takes centuries to build trust and once second to lose trust. One of the easiest way to loose trust is to gossip. People talk behind others back, do backbiting and all they do is lose trust for a lifetime. If others are gossiping infront of you simply apply this life hack that Hey, can we talk on some other topic? You just need to change the topic.

Time management

It is the most important life skill in every persons life. While there is no one right way, it’s important to find a system that works for you and stick to it. All you have to learn is how to plan things and stuff. Make a to do list and fulfill it. Be capable of doing all the work on the scheduled date.

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Here Are 13 False Pregnancy Myths to Help All Mothers-to-Be

There are many myths and misconceptions attached to pregnancy. Here are some of the most commonly believed in myths and reasons why they are not true:

1. Wide Hips Can Make Childbirth Easier:

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When people talk about wide hips in the context of childbirth they are usually referring to a wider ilium. However, the distance between the iliac crests and the size of the birth canal are totally unrelated. During childbirth, it is the hole in the middle of the pelvic bone that counts and it can be big or small irrelevant of the size of the hips.

2. The Size And Shape Of The Belly Can Tell Whether It’s A Boy Or A Girl:

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Most people try to guess the gender of the baby by looking at the shape of a pregnant woman’s belly. Although it will make things quite easier if it were true but it is not. The size and shape of the belly are affected by the size of the fetus and its position in the womb.

3. Frequent Ultrasounds Are Unsafe For The Baby:

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There is no scientific backing to the myth that getting an ultrasound could harm a mother or her unborn child. People often confuse ultrasound with radiation. Ultrasound is just high-frequency sound waves which produce an image on the screen after bouncing off of the fetus and are safe.

4. It’s Bad For The Baby To Lie On Your Stomach:

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The baby is well protected inside the muscular uterus and lying on the stomach would not harm it, as long as it feels comfortable.

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Becoming pregnant does not mean you should give up running. As long as you have a safe pregnancy and your doctor gives you a go ahead, it is completely fine for you to continue running.

6. Morning Sickness Only Happens In The Morning And During The First Trimester:Image result for morning sickness shutterstock

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Majority of the pregnant women suffering from nausea but only a small percentage of it suffer it in the morning. It can be an all day thing and while for most women it does end after the first trimester for some it can go on until the time of delivery.

7. Lifting Your Arms Above Your Head Could Strangle The Baby:Image result

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Lifting your arms around your head cannot cause the umbilical cord to wrap around your baby’s neck. In fact, none of your movements can have an effect on the position of the umbilical cord and a lot of babies are born with the umbilical cord wound around their neck and is easily removed by the doctor.

8. You Would Have To Get Rid Of Your Cat:

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Cats can be the carrier of a rare birth defect causing disease called toxoplasmosis. However, this does not mean you have to say goodbye to your pet as soon as you get pregnant. It is recommended to avoid cleaning the litter box and if you do not have anyone to do it for you wear gloves while doing it and immediately wash your hands afterwards.

9. Pregnancy Is The Best Time Of The Life For All Women:

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The general conception goes round that being pregnant is the happiest time in a woman’s life. In reality, many pregnant can feel stressed, afraid and general feelings of unhappiness. A small percentage of women even suffer from symptoms of depression. This can happen due to the changing hormones in a woman’s body which ultimately affect the brain and mood center. If a woman experiences depressive symptoms it should be treated as it can have adverse effects on the health of the mother and baby.

10. It Is Okay To Drink Once In A While:

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When you drink alcohol while pregnant, so does your baby as it can pass freely through the placenta. This can increase the baby being born with some physical or mental birth defect. While it is hard to determine the safe amount of alcohol that can be consumed without harming the baby it is best to stay away from alcohol altogether during the course of pregnancy.

11. You Lose All Your Pregnancy Weight During The Delivery:

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The extra pregnancy weight gain is due to the amalgamation of the weight of the baby, placenta, breasts, the increased volumes of blood and body fluid in the body and some extra fat. While the weight of the baby, placenta and amniotic fluid is immediately lost after the delivery, it takes a couple of weeks to lose the weight gained by fluid and also fat depending on how much you gained.

12. A C-section Is The Easy Way Out:Image result

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When it comes to delivery there is no easy way out. Many pregnant women believe that a C-section is the less painful and safer way of delivery. However, in reality, a c section could be pretty painful as well the only difference is you feel the pain after the baby had been born, unlike the vaginal birth. It can also pose complications later and is only recommended by doctors when the benefits outweigh the dangers.

13. The Fetus Is Unaffected By The Outside Events:

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For a long time, it was believed that babies are born oblivious to their outside environment. In truth, babies can hear sounds and recognize their mother’s voice while inside the womb. They are also able to detect light and taste the food by licking the placental wall.

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Here Are 24 Tweets That Prove Pets Change Lives for the Better

Pets are amazing. They can easily become your best friend and these hilarious tweets prove that there is never a dull moment with them:


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Doesn’t looking at these make you want to get a pet.

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People Had Varying Opinions on This Artist Impression of “Realistically Proportioned Disney Princesses” and We Thought You Should Be Able To Form Your Own.

People’s opinions around the world often vary because of the different circumstances they live in. And living in a world with so many different kinds of people often means that they’ll conflict on matters from time to time. Something similar happened when an artist posted a picture of a what he thought “Realistically proportioned” Disney princesses would look like.

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The following comments followed and one woman, in particular, had a strong response,


several people seemed to agree with her,

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Other people soon started appearing in the comments box with their own opinions, an artist gave his expert opinion,

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This commenter made us all aware that Disney had been wrong in several respects,

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People continued discussing what body acceptance really was;

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Tell us what you think about the realistically proportioned Disney princesses in the comments!

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