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Many of you can relate to this scenario in which you are just looking at the couples in public spaces and the feeling can not only be taunting, but make you want to roll your eyes. Your mind can spin around many questions like ‘Why am I single?’ and ‘Am I lonely?’ There’s nothing wrong with seeking love, because it’s beautiful and can bring about some of the most treasured moments in our lives. When you have been single for a long time you start yearning for a relationship, and watching couples sharing memories just start getting on your nerves and you start pitying yourself. All your friends are either talking to someone, dating someone seriously, engaged, or already married with their 2 kids. It’s almost like everyone is pushing this idea that you have to be in a relationship.

However, that doesn’t mean you should jump into a relationship. Sometimes being single and staying away from all the relationship drama is better for you. We are often told that happiness lies in the arms of another human being, but what if living our best life is actually all about being single? Being single is actually pretty sweet, until you find someone who passes the compatibility test with you. So next time you find yourself wallowing in shallow self-pity, think about the following reasons that you should stay single if..

1. There Is That Little Voice In Your Head:

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Everything seems perfect with your partner, you are attracted to each other, you both get along with each other but, oh yes! There is this “but” which is a constant nagging that is screaming in your head that something isn’t right, and that little voice inside your head is telling you to make a run for it. It is easy to let go of that voice because everything seems so up to the mark and perfect for any relationship. That little voice is telling you constantly that something is wrong and you are not ready for this relationship, listen to that voice! That little voice embedded under your superficial emotions is always right and it knows you better than any relationship advice you get from guides or dating websites. Do no jump onto the next man/woman you see. Look for someone who is compatible with you and passes the compatibility test of yours.

2. You Get Crazy Sometimes:

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There must have been many occasions when you have overreacted in a situation and it gets too late to realize that you have gone over the limit with someone acting all crazy and you couldn’t just stop yourself from it. You know what is this a sign of? It is a hint that you are not in a position to be with someone when you already have a baggage of yours. The baggage could be someone from your past or your habit of being short tempered, etc. There is no reason for someone else to experience this side of yours until you have got a keeper who understands your position and you know that he/she can handle your craziness in any feeble moments of yours.

3. You Just Feel Like You’re Supposed To Be Single:

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There are some people, many of them women, who do have a sense that they should be single. Contrary to what your friends, family or society might say, if you’re happy being single, that’s awesome. There is only one way to know that you are meant to be single, and my friend it is as simple as being happy. If you are happy with your position and you want to stay focused on other things in life like your career, then single it is! Do not push yourself in a relationship because your mom or your best friend wants you to. If you feel the inner peace from being single and you have other relations to focus on for time being, then stay single until your heart desires to be with someone else again.

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4.  There Are “things” (Compatibility test):

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The “things” being your priorities or a to-do list that you made a year ago and somehow couldn’t fulfill it. Sometimes relationships can hold you back to experience the ventures you can not do while being in a relationship. The problem about being with someone and not letting yourself venture toward temptation is that you will inevitably resent your partner for holding you back. This is one of the reason why some relationships fail and this is what they tell you to live your life, travel, fall in love a bunch of times, and try everything once, before you settle down with someone. Though, many adventures can be done with your partner but there are many things that will not fall in with the mood of your partner and you have to do them on your own. Everything happens on it’s designated time, just don’t push it and let it happen with the course of time.

5. Your New Partner Is Like Your Ex:

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Well, nobody wants to fall in the same dark pit they have fallen before. It is time to run away as fast as you can when you start to notice the same unhealthy patterns in your relationship. If you have a history of failed relationships you need to work on what’s pulling you towards the toxicity. Look for the past events or circumstances that you haven’t dealt with. Do you need some kind of closure? Do you know what went wrong in previous relationship? If not, then look for the reasons, may be it was your poor choices for yourself or may be it was your partner who couldn’t understand you well. Find the reason and work on it or stay single until you find someone who passes the compatibility test and is perfect match of your personality.

Bringing it all together: Having the confidence to take time to understand yourself and choose the right partner is one of the biggest challenges singles face. Some people make a life-long commitment out of obligation or because they fear being alone – or worry too much about societal expectations. If you’re emotionally stable, ready for the ride, meet someone who completely steals your every breath, then yes, dive right in. But if the situation is opposite, then work on it.

Liked it? Check this also: 12 Signs To Know That You Are In the Right Relationship

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Here Are 13 False Pregnancy Myths to Help All Mothers-to-Be

There are many myths and misconceptions attached to pregnancy. Here are some of the most commonly believed in myths and reasons why they are not true:

1. Wide Hips Can Make Childbirth Easier:

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When people talk about wide hips in the context of childbirth they are usually referring to a wider ilium. However, the distance between the iliac crests and the size of the birth canal are totally unrelated. During childbirth, it is the hole in the middle of the pelvic bone that counts and it can be big or small irrelevant of the size of the hips.

2. The Size And Shape Of The Belly Can Tell Whether It’s A Boy Or A Girl:

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Most people try to guess the gender of the baby by looking at the shape of a pregnant woman’s belly. Although it will make things quite easier if it were true but it is not. The size and shape of the belly are affected by the size of the fetus and its position in the womb.

3. Frequent Ultrasounds Are Unsafe For The Baby:

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There is no scientific backing to the myth that getting an ultrasound could harm a mother or her unborn child. People often confuse ultrasound with radiation. Ultrasound is just high-frequency sound waves which produce an image on the screen after bouncing off of the fetus and are safe.

4. It’s Bad For The Baby To Lie On Your Stomach:

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The baby is well protected inside the muscular uterus and lying on the stomach would not harm it, as long as it feels comfortable.

5. Running While Pregnant Is Bad:Image result for pregnant woman running shutterstock

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Becoming pregnant does not mean you should give up running. As long as you have a safe pregnancy and your doctor gives you a go ahead, it is completely fine for you to continue running.

6. Morning Sickness Only Happens In The Morning And During The First Trimester:Image result for morning sickness shutterstock

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Majority of the pregnant women suffering from nausea but only a small percentage of it suffer it in the morning. It can be an all day thing and while for most women it does end after the first trimester for some it can go on until the time of delivery.

7. Lifting Your Arms Above Your Head Could Strangle The Baby:Image result

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Lifting your arms around your head cannot cause the umbilical cord to wrap around your baby’s neck. In fact, none of your movements can have an effect on the position of the umbilical cord and a lot of babies are born with the umbilical cord wound around their neck and is easily removed by the doctor.

8. You Would Have To Get Rid Of Your Cat:

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Cats can be the carrier of a rare birth defect causing disease called toxoplasmosis. However, this does not mean you have to say goodbye to your pet as soon as you get pregnant. It is recommended to avoid cleaning the litter box and if you do not have anyone to do it for you wear gloves while doing it and immediately wash your hands afterwards.

9. Pregnancy Is The Best Time Of The Life For All Women:

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The general conception goes round that being pregnant is the happiest time in a woman’s life. In reality, many pregnant can feel stressed, afraid and general feelings of unhappiness. A small percentage of women even suffer from symptoms of depression. This can happen due to the changing hormones in a woman’s body which ultimately affect the brain and mood center. If a woman experiences depressive symptoms it should be treated as it can have adverse effects on the health of the mother and baby.

10. It Is Okay To Drink Once In A While:

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When you drink alcohol while pregnant, so does your baby as it can pass freely through the placenta. This can increase the baby being born with some physical or mental birth defect. While it is hard to determine the safe amount of alcohol that can be consumed without harming the baby it is best to stay away from alcohol altogether during the course of pregnancy.

11. You Lose All Your Pregnancy Weight During The Delivery:

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The extra pregnancy weight gain is due to the amalgamation of the weight of the baby, placenta, breasts, the increased volumes of blood and body fluid in the body and some extra fat. While the weight of the baby, placenta and amniotic fluid is immediately lost after the delivery, it takes a couple of weeks to lose the weight gained by fluid and also fat depending on how much you gained.

12. A C-section Is The Easy Way Out:Image result

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When it comes to delivery there is no easy way out. Many pregnant women believe that a C-section is the less painful and safer way of delivery. However, in reality, a c section could be pretty painful as well the only difference is you feel the pain after the baby had been born, unlike the vaginal birth. It can also pose complications later and is only recommended by doctors when the benefits outweigh the dangers.

13. The Fetus Is Unaffected By The Outside Events:

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For a long time, it was believed that babies are born oblivious to their outside environment. In truth, babies can hear sounds and recognize their mother’s voice while inside the womb. They are also able to detect light and taste the food by licking the placental wall.

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Here Are 24 Tweets That Prove Pets Change Lives for the Better

Pets are amazing. They can easily become your best friend and these hilarious tweets prove that there is never a dull moment with them:

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Doesn’t looking at these make you want to get a pet.

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People Had Varying Opinions on This Artist Impression of “Realistically Proportioned Disney Princesses” and We Thought You Should Be Able To Form Your Own.

People’s opinions around the world often vary because of the different circumstances they live in. And living in a world with so many different kinds of people often means that they’ll conflict on matters from time to time. Something similar happened when an artist posted a picture of a what he thought “Realistically proportioned” Disney princesses would look like.

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The following comments followed and one woman, in particular, had a strong response,

 

several people seemed to agree with her,

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Other people soon started appearing in the comments box with their own opinions, an artist gave his expert opinion,

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This commenter made us all aware that Disney had been wrong in several respects,

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People continued discussing what body acceptance really was;

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Tell us what you think about the realistically proportioned Disney princesses in the comments!

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