Intimacy is a more complicated affair for women than it is for men, and more often than not men seem to forget about their partners pleasure and continue focusing on their own. If you are hoping to make your time together under the sheets better for her than its important for you to understand that for women, arousal is all about the romance that initiates the intimacy. And so, we’ve complied a list of the things you can try to make it great for her while keeping it great for you in the process! The crux of the matter is, that for women it’s all about the romance, literally all about the romance! Try thinking your approach through and tell us if our tips were helpful!
9. Meditate Together:
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Sounds odd, but it isn’t! Meditating can bring out the empathy in a person and help increase their arousal making room for her more romantic side to kick in and because of it can end up in her enjoying the intimacy between the two of you, several experts agree that meditating can bring a couple together and the quiet and soul searching time that meditating gives you can definitely help a women feel more at home with the intimacy that you’re hoping to follow.
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8. Cuddle:
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We all know that cuddling after intimacy is a good idea, i mean all women love it, but why not try it before the sex! Tell her you love her and settle down into the sheets with her and while you ruffle her hair maybe she’ll get the idea, it’ll be romantic and she’ll find it sweet, and will probably motivate her and get her in the mood for it, helping her enjoy the love making a lot more.
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7. Sext:
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Try sending your partner an intimate message that just suggestive enough and classy and it’ll have her dreaming of you all day, try it early morning or just before she gets home or you get home, and it’ll help her feel a lot more into the love making, and will end up fantasizing about you all day. Click here to know more.
6. Focus On The Foreplay:
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Make sure she’s having fun during the foreplay because its key to having her enjoy the actual love making, take time to plan something out for yourself and go the extra mile to make it special. Try some role play for example, or go for a more subtle and classy approach, like bringing out the red wine and roses!
5. Look At Her:
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Look into her eyes when you’re doing it and hold her gaze all through the love making, make her feel comfortable telling her and assuring her how much you love her while keeping eye contact. Remember, eye contact is a great way to increase the empathy between two people and it will help her enjoy the love making much more, try to keep her gaze and hold yourself steady, letting her know how you feel about her through your eyes. Remember the golden tip! It’s all about romance!
4. Give Her Massages:
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Massages are a perfect way to make her comfortable and initiate intimacy, it relaxes and arouses most women because its romantic and involves a lot of effort on your part, remember effort counts! In-fact its the only thing that counts so make sure you’re putting in a whole lot of it.
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3. Try Aromatherapy:
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It turns out that some foods and smells helps with arousal and sex, why not bring out some something that’s suitable (gourmet food and the works, it’ll be more romantic that way, remember constant vigilance! And did you know that pumpkin pie can actually turn you on?), maybe you’ll be getting lucky tonight if you do!
2. Watch Monkeys:
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I know it sounds like we’re joking but we aren’t, apparently according to studies, yes actual scientific studies, if a women watches monkeys having sex she feels more like having sex as well. Turn on animal planet when you can. Its more useful than you’ve been thinking all his time and it was useful to begin with. Or maybe you can have a planet of the apes marathon!
1. Wink At Her Across The Room:
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Never underestimate the power of a well timed wink, if you’re in a room full of people, meet her gaze and wink (just don’t wink at the old man behind her in the process) the secrecy of the whole think will make her want it a lot more than she would have without it! And will hopefully end in the sex you’ve been wanting for the two of you, the kind that she’s enjoying just as much as you are!
Conclusion:
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For women intimacy and arousal is all about the effort that’s being put into the case and how much she is romantically connected to you, and so as mentioned before, if your looking to make it special for her bring out the candles and make sure you tell her you love her enough, because it’s simpler than you’ve been thinking this whole time, just give her what she wants, and that’s a few more hugs and loving gestures! Hope you have a romantic holiday season!