People with goals are people with a big heart.
People will have goals are people who decide to take more from the living than they have been given. People with goals are those misfits who refuse to just simply accept the plate what the world has offered.
They are those miraculous wonders of this universe who create miracles.
Doing this is not as easy as it sounds, but it is stranger than the way it looks. This is because a large number of people are more than happy to take the easy way out. People settle for dead-end jobs and unhappy relationships, but the dreamers do not.
Usually, people are not ready to face any struggles, sufferings, and resentments, however, dreamers are not afraid.
The one big difference between all those dreamers and the rest of the world is that they pay the price, they suffer, live through sleepless nights, survive through the craziest schedules, and accept even the most unpredicted of rejections. And by doing so, they reach their goals while the rest of us give up.
If you’re a dreamer, then you might be facing some of these challenges.
1) Be prepared to face any challenge (Make Your Dreams Come True)
Everything starts with you and the courage you have inside you.
Times are going to get tough and life will do everything it can to roughen you up, however, you must not ever give up. Be prepared for every challenge, and be ready to face your worst fears, be ready to do away with doubts and remember that you are the only thing that can hold you back.
2) Fears of the unknown (Make Your Dreams Come True)
If you have a goal that does not sit well with the people that surround you, then you will receive a lot of criticism and hate.
Going after a dream that people do not like is the hardest thing ever, this is because you’ll have to do things differently and you’ll have to pave a whole new way for yourself. In a world where people do not support your ideas, overcoming your fears, like the fears of failure and the fear of rejection is extremely important.
People are usually close-minded, and they are always replaceable, find people who love you for who you are and support your goals.
3) Self-esteem (Make Your Dreams Come True)
Getting rejected and not being able to achieve your dream on the first attempt hits you hard.
However, you are not the only one who feels this way. Don’t let this damage your self-esteem. Stand back up again and fight for what you believe in because after we fall, we become stronger when we get back up again.
Never lose hope, and never give up, success is probably close!
4) Self-doubt (Make Your Dreams Come True)
Do you believe in yourself when the world doesn’t?
If you do, it won’t be able to break you. If you don’t, even a piece of criticism will be enough for you to believe that you are a failure and you should give up.
You are a human, and because life is a journey full of learning, you will make mistakes. The best way to get through this is to accept this fact and continue. Believe in yourself, your instincts, skills and abilities. But at the same times, give yourself enough space to make yourself a better person than you were yesterday.
5) Rejections (Make Your Dreams Come True)
Rejections are heartbreaking but they are important because they are just telling you to do more, rise above, get yourself together for something bigger.
They are a reminder that you should try harder, do more, and work extraordinarily to achieve your goals.
6) Failures (Make Your Dreams Come True)
Rejections and failures go side by side but failures are more difficult to accept. However, they make you stronger.
If you are willing to accept them as another chance to make your work flawless, you will surely get more than you imagined. The astonishing stories of Walt Disney, Jack Ma, and J.K. Rowling are perfect examples of how failure can polish your skills and abilities.
If you ever encounter failure, accept it with dignity and take it as a chance to make yourself perfect.
7) Hardships (Make Your Dreams Come True)
If it’s worth it won’t be easy. Your best friends won’t always be there by your side. Your parents won’t always be having enough money to support you financially.
There will be hard times, fights, sometimes with your own self, sometimes with people around you.
There will be hard times because there is no easy way. The sooner you admit it the better will you pass through it. Fight yourself but only when you are giving up.
Don’t let yourself give up on you.
8) Opportunities (Make Your Dreams Come True)
The bigger goal you have, the more challenging it will be to have opportunities that will get you closer to your aims.
However, wise people don’t wait for an opportunity to knock at their doorstep. They create their own opportunities, their own ways, and their own maps to help them cross the road.
9) People (Make Your Dreams Come True)
Sometimes the people who can’t achieve what you are going to or don’t have the nerves to face the world as you do will try to make you feel bad about yourself and will discourage you.
Especially when you are going through hard times and are still working to rise above them, some people will sit down by your side telling to stop and discontinue.
Don’t pay them any mind, true friends are happy for you, know the difference.
10) Consistency (Make Your Dreams Come True)
Consistency is one of the major codes to unlock the door of your success. Many people lack the ability to repeat when they can’t reach any particular goal.
It’s like giving up even before the race has begun.
When you are sprinting in the race of your life towards a particular goal, it’s not necessary that you cross the finish line easily and immediately.
Reaching there and crossing it is all that matters. If you can’t reach the finish line on the first attempt, don’t quit; don’t curse yourself or anyone else.
Just go back to where you started, analyze yourself, correct your mistakes practice and start again. Even from the beginning if you need to. Just don’t quit!
11) Limitations (Make Your Dreams Come True)
Everyone has limitations. You will feel stupid and dumb some days. You can run out of cash, lose a job; have a fight with your boss or parents.
You can be sick sometimes. That’s normal. What’s not normal is, giving up when your wallet gets empty, not doing it anymore because your loved ones don’t approve of it.
You should be ready and prepared to go through these fragile moments successfully and determined to not give up and continue at any cost.
12) Time Can Be Your Worst Enemy (Make Your Dreams Come True)
If you waste time, it can be your worst enemy.
But it can be your faithful companion if you use it and make the most out of it. Time is never enough. It’s you who has to make it enough. If you are not good at time management, you won’t be able to achieve your goals.
However, all you really need is to survive through one day without wasting it. Those days will add up into a week and the weeks will turn in to months and then years and the cycle will continue.
So make your minutes count to make your years count.
You will sometimes feel exhausted when you find others enjoying parties and movies while yourself stuck into work. At those times keep saying one thing to yourself.
My destiny is different, my path is different.
Article by: Born Realist